The Real Deal with A Twist

Hey Guys! Happy Thursday!

People think that an actor wakes up one day and decides, "I am going to be an actor for the rest of my life."...This is where its wrong my friends. Honestly everyone is different, but one does NOT BECOME an actor over night haha, I WISH!  But the truth is, becoming an artist in general is a decision you really have to think about.  Going into this industry means you are entering without knowing that you will have a job, just like any other career. Except this one is ten times harder because, there is so many other people and talent that WANT to make it.  But what makes one stand out is their perspective of their attitude, motivation, and talent.  The reality of being successful in this industry as wrong as it sounds; you really need to know people, connections, networking, chatting it up, what ever you want to call it, IT IS THE TRUTH.

Casting directors do not just hand you roles (unfortunately :(  ), Auditions is where it's at.  But the casting directors are also trying to find a job by finding the actor they want! I personally have not done auditions outside of schools yet, (I'm so nervous too ehhh!) but the outside world auditions is the real deal! Auditions are not meant to scare actors, but the reality is that auditions are always nerve racking. They are the door to the next job, to pay your rent, FOOD and don't forget your cell phone bill! But don't all actors do waitressing or some type of bar tending? *typical stereotype* .. WRONG! 

This is the area where I have been trying to understand.  If you are an aspiring actor and you are working on your techniques and preparing for auditions, how do you even make time for a thing called a JOB?  If you have auditions in the morning or in the evening, what the heck can you do that will be consistent and will keep food on our table?  Honestly, it all depends on what your schedule is like, and what kind of work you want to do.  But we can't be picky forever. Sometimes we have to just go with the flow and take what we were handed, just like some roles that we will get.  

At first I thought retail would be good for me because it is consistent and kind of cool.  But boy was I really wrong, retail had me a bit stressed because of closing hours.  I had to stay two hours after my real shift, the reaction to that was lack of sleep to get ready for the next day at school, less time to memorize lines, and actually work on my technique.  I am quesioning myself, if I am usually a multi-tasker and can not do it with retail, than what is the real problem?  Is it me, or is it the job?  I had to come to conclusions and pointed my fingers to the job.  If my job was not wiling to work with my schedule and understand that I am a full time student than they had the issue.  And I was stuck with joggling something that I never had to deal with.  But I found a new job thanks to one of my close friends! (I am telling you it is all about the HOOK UP!) This time it is not at a retail store, its at a salad restaurant.  And the manager is so far understanding my priority which is school, so hopefully scheduling won't be the issue.  Now what I have to do, is make sure the free time I have is being useful for the sake of my classes, my own technique, and don't forget some relaxing time! 

I will get back to y'all about how that s going :) 

But what I am trying to say, is that in any career/job that you choose in life, you will get new challenges thrown at you with out a warning.  Don't stress it, SOLVE IT. 


xoxo,
Albs

Being Healthy is Hard?

"In fitness and in life, self-starting is difficult.  Master it and you'll give yourself a head start to your dreams.  DO IT NOW." 

                                    -LL Cool J


I have been trying to change my eating ways for about 5 months. (Key word: trying!)  Just 5 months, thats it... It feels like a life time to me, seriously.  But how did I change it? Little by little I have been running away from my daily Dominican rice and beans ;) but I do spoil myself with it once in a while.

But if I don't eat rice, what do I eat then? What I substitute rice with is: quinoa, butternut squash, brown jasmine rice, whole grain pasta, lentils and LOTS of veggies. But does it even taste good? You can make it taste how ever you want, the key is to have your foods best friends next to you.  Which is seasoning and I use pure sea salt.  Once you have that, you will bring out the life in any type of grain that you choose to eat. And trust me you do get full, you can never eat enough veggies!

I am a huge meat lover, from ribs to chicken.  But what helps me in this department, is less frying and more baking.  The oven is always there and waiting to get hot.  I'll season the meat a couple days before and then pop it in the oven with foil covering it to keep the moisture and in 20 minutes its finished! Side it off with steamed seasoned vegetables and dinner is served.

Another way to really watch what you eat, is to have a food journal.  Constantly writing every snack and meal you have eaten daily.  The one tip that works for me is to leave my debit or credit card at home or in the back of my wallet. So you can try to forget about it and not be tempted by any fast food on the streets!! MY CHALLENGE, IS SWEETS.  It is a must to control your sweet tooth no matter how hard it is to ignore your craving angel.  Trust me, it takes time.  For example, I am a chocolate lover.  I eat chocolate at least once a day. I am going to cut it down for 3 times a week, than once a week, than once a month! Patience and consitency.

Thats my task, what is yours?

Less worrying, more with the FLOW

Hey Dolls!

So today in my Improvisation class, we were talking about our over all goal to reach by the end of the term.  And when my professor asked me if I remembered mine, I totally blanked out. I couldn't recall what I really wanted to work on in her class. (So not like me!) Something in me, told me that I did have a clue but the words didn't come out of my mouth. So of course she told me, "you said you wanted to work on having less control over things." It was a smack in the face because lately I have been wanting to plan my every move in my acting career, trying to make things perfect. 


Some of us do this all the time without even noticing.  It's a type of comfort that we have because we are so used to the daily routine.  Now if you are like me, you like to have a planner or some sort of organization to really jot down your ideas, things to do lists, inspirational quotes, etc. But I quickly tend to forget that LIFE occurs outside of my planner and my planner is just a reminder.

No matter what career you chose for your life, you can get there with baby steps. This is one of the most important lessons that have been brought to my attention. What you have to do is forget your long term goal, put it in a suitcase in the back of your brain; and instead, have short term goals that will work up to your long term goal.

How to fix this? There is no exact "one way" to put a bandage over it.  This issue can only be cured, with a daily effort of something simple. So simple that you will be mind blown when you read the next line: Enjoy what you do everyday, with the same passion you had when you started it.  No matter what career or what class you are taking, something within you brought you there.

We tend to lose interest or stop working hard, once we get what we have been wanting for so long.  But how do you expect change and growth of success when you have been doing the same daily routine? Everyday you must do something new to see long term results.  Of course results will not be shown in a couple hours, BUT if you keep loving what you do, put in all your effort, seek for new ways to improve, have a positive attitude, I guarantee you will have as much success as you dreamed of when you were younger.

Its all about enjoying the journey, that lives unknown.



xoxo,
Albs

My journey only begins..

Ready, set, GO!

So this is my attempt on having weekly posts! I mean I first need to start by saying that my spelling is horrible and I will keep my eye out for you guys. This blog doesn't have one specific focus; its more around life, acting, film, art, natural hair, success, struggles, traveling, friends, family, fun, discussions of the REAL world.  

I am originally from Boston but currently living New York following my ambition to become an Actress. How did i get here? Its a long and complicated journey but I am so appreciative of myself for really having the guts to do what I love. I attend the New York Film Academy and have been loving every moment.  I am still trying to get to know blogger so there will be some changes coming soon!

Once a week I will load a blog on the page! So hope you all enjoy!

xoxo,

Albs

Possibilities are endless like the waves of the sea